Tips on discussing vaginal irritation & pain

This section describes how to discuss the vaginal irritation and pain associated with atrophic vaginitis with your partner and your healthcare professional. It also includes online resources and printable patient instructions for VAGIFEM®.

Atrophic vaginitis is a condition that occurs in menopausal women as a result of decreased estrogen levels. The vulva and lining of the vagina become thin and easily damaged, causing vaginal irritation. Reduced vaginal lubrication causes dryness and can lead to pain during sexual intercourse. It may help you to know that these changes are normal and can be treated.

If you feel awkward talking about vaginal irritation and pain, you should know that you're not alone. It's normal to feel self-conscious. There are effective treatments such as prescription VAGIFEM® that can relieve the vaginal discomfort associated with atrophic vaginitis that can lead to pain during sexual intercourse. Be assured that menopause and atrophic vaginitis do not automatically mean the end of an active sex life.

Talking with your partner

Communication is one of the best ways for maintaining an active sex life. Try to be open and honest as you discuss the impact that vaginal irritation has on your enjoyment of sex.

Consider inviting your partner to visit your healthcare professional with you. You may actually find the support helpful during your consultation. Explain that the more your partner understands about vaginal dryness and atrophic vaginitis in general, the more reassured and educated you both will be. Your partner's participation can also strengthen your relationship.

Talking with your doctor or nurse

Before visiting your healthcare professional about vaginal irritation, you may want to use the Physician Visit Checklist to help you prepare for your visit. You may have lots of questions that you want to ask before your visit, such as:

Make a list of questions to ask your healthcare professional before your visit so you don't forget them. Consider the following:

Also, bring a list of all the medications you're taking, including over-the-counter medications.

During the visit, if your healthcare professional is rushing you along, don't hesitate to ask him or her to slow down and let you tell your story. Don't be afraid to bring up sexuality. Healthcare professionals might not bring up sex with you because they don't want to make you uncomfortable, but they are trained and comfortable discussing sexual concerns with patients.

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